YaYa's Life: Monday Monday

Wow i almost see dust on my blog... haha! havent been discipline enough to keep this blog active or even alive.

Finally had enough thoughts in mind to start ranting on this lil space.

So wat i've been busy recently?

Besides seeing my darling everyday and not get sick of it, met Ari and Kevin sometimes, went out with dear's family, going shopping, i did some rackie on my soon-to-be piano school and re-read my twilight series watch some new dramas like gossip girls and vampires diaries. I also tidy up my bedroom again.

Finally decided on my piano school. i'm gg for the verve music school at amk. Yeah, i know neighbourhood but wat most impt is to start the very first lesson at least. Had make a comparsion to another chain music school but i dunn like the idea of having 'chinese' teacher teaching me. I know i sound biases but i would have very much prefer local to teach me.

More or less have choosen the piano i wanted too. But at the moment i need to feel how long my interest would last for my passion on piano. My interests never lasted long well except for my game maplestory. Just like Bella's mum, i get distraction easily.

Well of course there's another exception too. It seems like i can never get enough of my Eric dear. I know it sounds mushy but that's really how i feel. =P

Somehow year end always seems to pass faster than felt. Everyone can feels the holiday season soon and of cuz i cant wait for my taiwan trip which is in abt 2 month times.

Of cuz i have also decided to seek further work opportunity when next year begin. Hopefully i can say goodbye before the moving starts. I had enough of Frank and Lilian Gilbreth's nonsense. I know it's a great theory but it will only works in factory assembly line not office.

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So what is marriage to you? I havent been really thinking what is marriage abt, the life of marriage, beautiful? or like Bella's mum says it's the killer of love or even nightmare to some.

Marriage is a step further with a love one to take the relationship into another level.

"I do" a promise to love and take care of your love one no matter wat happens.

'To have and hold' him for your entire life

I may have misinterpret the real meaning, but just based on my understanding abt marriage, i have derived it in my own way.

I used to think abt it few years back and the aftermath of thinking it, brings me extreme pain in the end.

It was beautiful, as perfect as you can imagine it. But perhaps i was young then...

Now that i'm more mature, i know that life is never perfect the way we have dream or imagine it. But we can always try to make it work. Nothing will works if no effort is made.

As a woman living in Singapore, it's very predictable how everything will fall in place in the same sequence. Of course nobody wants it that way, but we're living in sg!?

So wat's the sequence?

Work => Money => Apply House => Man propose => ROM => Get house =>
Chinese Wedding => Honeymoon => Work => Children

Sounds very familiar right?

That's the fate of a typical Sg's working woman.

Of course there's is also ppl who will prefer to stay single but that will be another story.

By the end of sequence, average woman is already 35-38 years old and then give birth to their first child.

Imagine having to work another 20-25 years to keep money coming in. I dunn want to work until 60++!! Too old! hahaa! And i dunn intend to pass 70 too! =P I'll look too winkle...

I just dunn want to fall into this catergory of a typical Sg woman! =(

Heard some news of friends and cousins getting engage or having marriage plans. Felt happy for them and of course cant wait to attend their weddings too!

But i just wonder being ard my age, it's really difficult to get things done with limited amount of money.

It weird how our gahman wants to have more babies when stuffs just gets more costly. Perhaps giving goceries voucher would helps to encourage ppl to have more kids?

Anyway, i have rant enough for today. Time for some pics before i end this entry...

Dessert shop house at Serangoon.... Not bad not bad!